1 Samuel 14

As we move into the next chapter of 1 Samuel, we see the drama continuing to unfold. Our chapter for today reads like an episode from a historical court drama that would have ended in tragedy if not for the integrity and loyalty of the ‘supporting cast’.

What was the recipe for this tragedy and what can we learn from it as Christians as well as members of the body of Christ?

Let’s read and consider.

Bible Passage:  1 Samuel 14

Lack of Communication

Now it happened one day that Jonathan the son of Saul said to the young man who bore his armour, “Come, let us go over to the Philistines’ garrison that is on the other side.” But he did not tell his father. (1 Sam 14:1)

The lack of communication can be said to be the main culprit in a majority of misunderstandings and strife. From incidents in the Bible to other historical events as well as books, movies and even the things that happen in our lives, don’t we often feel that if we or the other party has said this or explained that, matters would not become so serious or tragic?

On the other hand, we also see how having a clear channel of communication averted what could have become disastrous. An example of such a case in the Bible would be how Peter explained his visit to Cornelius to the brethren in Jerusalem (Acts 11) so that they knew what he did was according to the will of God.

Putting aside the averting of disaster, let’s just talk about our status as Christians. As Christians, we are supposed to be walking in the light. We should also be the peacemakers and the bridges between man and man as well as man and God. In order to do these, we need to learn to be good communicators; communicating when we should and communicating in an effective, tactful manner. It is not an easy lesson to learn (especially if you’re a super lousy conversationalist like me) but let us take heart that if we are willing to try, God will help us in the areas we lack.

Rash Words

And the men of Israel were distressed that day, for Saul had placed the people under oath, saying, “Cursed is the man who eats any food until evening, before I have taken vengeance on my enemies.” So none of the people tasted food. (1 Sam 14:24)

Another ingredient often found in the concoction of tragedy is the rash words of man. We can remember a classic example if we think back a few weeks ago when we read about Jephthah and his rash vow in Judges 11.

Words that leave our mouth before they go through our hearts and minds are extremely dangerous. How many times we spoken rashly and paid for our rash words with much regret? What is more unfortunate is that like Saul, many people refuse to take back their harsh words even after they realise these words are uncalled for.

Let us remember the oft-repeated but still apt reminder of Elder James

So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; (James 1:19)

As well as the words of the wise king Solomon

Do not be rash with your mouth, And let not your heart utter anything hastily before God. For God is in heaven, and you on earth; Therefore let your words be few. (Ecc 5:2)

May the Lord guide us and give us wisdom so that we’ll always be able to find the balance between timely speech and suitable silences.